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Radical Selfishness: How Being More Selfish is the Best Thing You Can Do for Everyone

📅 Sunday, September 20 🕑 1:45 PM - 3:15 PM 📍 Tent 1

About this Class

EVERYONE needs self-care. We know this. But do we know why? Who truly benefits from self-care? What if I were to say that the answer is you, every person you are in any kind of relationship with, and the world as a whole? Self-care is NOT indulgence, it is one of the best things you can do for EVERYONE.
In this workshop we will talk a little bit about my favorite topic, ME! By sharing my self-care journey, I try to encourage those I know, my friend, fellow kinksters, my community and the world to BE MORE SELFISH.

Duration: 90 Minutes

Class Presenters

InvictuZ

InvictuZ

Lead Presenter

InvictuZ (aka Zach Budd,LCSW), whose pronouns are; He/Him/Angry Black Man, is the Co-Founder and Head of Household for the Court of InvictuZ. He has been kinky his whole life and polyamorous for about 20 years. He has also been a dedicated consent and sexuality educator since 2014. InvictuZ works as a mental health professional and his practice focuses on individuals, couples, and groups who identify as sexual minorities (LGBTQ+, polyamorous, kinky, etc.).
InvictuZ has the heart of an educator, and his consent education and advocacy led him to the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (ncsfreedom.org) for which he has volunteered since 2017. He serves on the Consent Counts Committee and was appointed to the Board of Directors of NCSF in 2025 where he now serves as Vice Chair.
InvictuZ is a passionate and fierce advocate for the BIPOC, Leather, Kink, Polyamory and LGBTQ+ communities and can often be found representing NCSF at tables, presenting, and advocating for consent in all human interactions. As well as supporting and participating in education and activities sponsored by the Leather Solidarity Collective. He is a member of the National Leather Association, Houston Chapter, and is often found supporting that organization’s charitable works which benefit the LGBTQ+ community in and around Houston.
Additionally, his activism has resulted in him serving on polyamory and kink discussion panels, conducting workshops, participating in panels, and recording podcast episodes on the subjects of polyamory, consent, introversion, privilege, self-care, mental health, and kink.
InvictuZ lives, works, laughs, and loves in Houston, Texas where he enjoys listening to and playing music, advocating for his own and others’ self-care, all things Star Trek, reading, hockey, cooking, cigars, and bourbon. He can be contacted via his FetLife page; InvictuZ.


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